Withdraw to the untroubled quietude deep within the soul, and refresh yourself.
Get rid of the judgement ... get rid of the 'I am hurt,' you are rid of the hurt itself.
What is not good for the swarm is not good for the bee.
Just as nature takes every obstacle, every impediment, and works around it--turns it to its purposes, incorporates it into itself, so, too, a rational being can turn each setback into raw material and use it to achieve its goal.
Observe constantly that all things take place by change.
Do not be wise in words - be wise in deeds.