The first rule is to keep an untroubled spirit. The second is to look things in the face and know them for what they are.
Marcus AureliusRemember that even if you were to live for three thousand years, or thirty thousand, you could not lose any other life than the one you have, and there will be no other life after it. So the longest and the shortest lives are the same. The present moment is shared by all living creatures, but the time that is past is gone forever. No one can lose the past or the future, for if they don't belong to you, how can they be taken from you?
Marcus Aurelius