If you want to understand a difficult or trying person, begin by asking the question: 'What is the wound they are trying to heal?'

The best time to give feedback to strong people is when they're feeling weak, and to weak people when they're feeling strong.

We tend to see our character flaws as simple defects, and the simple defects of others as character flaws.

The best thing about the battle between the sexes is often the sex between the battles.

To have meaning, our lives require both passion and purpose. A life without passion is like a furnace without fuel, and without purpose, like a ship without a rudder.

Instead of talking in the hope that people will listen, try listening in the hope that people will talk.

People who are most interested in telling the truth about others are generally the least interested in having the truth told about themselves.