There's a lot of things you can put up with, as long as you're not related to them.
I hope I am not too repetitive. However, coming to terms with death is part of the general human situation.
In a way, the characters often do take over.
It changes you for ever, but you are changing for ever anyway.
a man who builds a house never really dies.
If a job's worth doing, it's worth doing twice.