The ego mind both professes its desire for love and does everything possible to repel it, or if it gets here anyway, to sabotage it. That is why dealing with issues like control, anger, and neediness is the most important work in preparing ourselves for love.
Marianne WilliamsonCreating the world we want is a much more subtle but more powerful mode of operation than destroying the one we don't want.
Marianne Williamson