Elegant persuasion is when the other person thought it was their idea.
What you think and do today determines how tomorrow is going to be.
Relationships don't exist... Relating does.
Those who think govern those who labor.
You make the choice for change more easily and readily each time as your conscious mind begins to reprogram your subconscious mind with a new habit, and the decision is reinforced by that positive change.
You must recognize that we train the people in our lives how to treat us.