You must recognize that we train the people in our lives how to treat us.
There are only 2 reasons that someone would want something in their life and not get it. First, they don't know what to do and second, they know what to do and don't know how to get themselves to do it consistently, if at all.
Take charge of your environment.
Finding love requires perseverance.
The more you laugh, the healthier you are. You must laugh more!
Either you will do now what it takes or ten years from now you wish that you had.