There are only 2 reasons that someone would want something in their life and not get it. First, they don't know what to do and second, they know what to do and don't know how to get themselves to do it consistently, if at all.

Everything you want and you don't have, you get from other people.

Never fall in love with someone's potential.

You can't get more by going for less.

Choose who you are in any given moment.

When you break an agreement in a relationship, you must offer an amendment first, or it is meaningless.

The greater the responsibility, the greater the reward.