Do exactly the opposite of what the sheep are doing in order to become the Shepherd.
Either create your own journey or you'll become a part of someone else's.
Ask 'What' and 'When.' The 'How' will naturally be revealed.
People will always be more willing to give you things that they think you don't need.
Make no apologies for who you are.
Let your yes be yes and your no be no--you can always change your mind.