People will always respect you when you're in the process of being better.
The mind, like any muscle, must be exercised.
You must learn to love, respect and believe in yourself. To accomplish this, begin by restructuring your current self-programming.
Finding love requires perseverance.
Ask 'What' and 'When.' The 'How' will naturally be revealed.
To yourself you are what you think. To the outside world, you are what you do.