The really potent part of love is that it allows you to carry around beliefs about yourself that make you feel special, desirable, precious, innately good. Your lover couldn't have seen [these qualities] in you, even temporarily, if they weren't part of your essential being.
Martha BeckAs soon as you think you know someone else's truth better than they do, you are in deep water.
Martha BeckSeek art from every time and place, in any form, to connect with those who really move you.
Martha BeckTo make an activity joyful, keep adding things until the activity as a whole becomes more appealing than repulsing.
Martha Beck