Shake structures. School yourself. Look twice at a thing, once upside down. Answer yourself clearly.
A life rooted deeply lives and grows in memory.
Take a deep breath and do the difficult thing first.
I will not be governed by the tyranny of immediacy.
Your informed, "no," to a particular service allows another to offer their gifted and unreserved, "yes."
The well-timed question is more impacting than an answer.