The well-timed question is more impacting than an answer.

Life is defined more by its contrasts than its samenesses; Life is defined more by its risks than the many securities.

At the end of a matter ask, "What will I learn from this to make me better?"

I appreciate the boldness of gratitude in the quiet, unspoken depths and its ability to buoy another by being articulated.

Speak quietly to yourself and promise there will be better days. Whisper gently to yourself and provide assurance that you really are extending your best effort. Console your bruised and tender spirit with reminders of many other successes. Offer comfort in practical and tangible ways - as if you were encouraging your dearest friend. Recognize that on certain days the greatest grace is that the day is over and you get to close your eyes. Tomorrow comes more brightly.

Today... maybe I can take one step on that profoundly complex path to peace.

In all things and in all ways, choice impacts virtually every element of our life. It bears repeating that even those things which seem out of reach of our choice are governed by how we choose to perceive them.