One day I realized that I wasn't getting anywhere by blaming other people for my circumstances. I finally understood: Even if you feel someone has wronged you or owes you something, no one is going to give you anything for free.
Mary J. BligeAs far as men go, they never gave me a chance to be me; they were always scared that somebody was going to take me.
Mary J. BligeWhen you tell your truth, you are coming from a real place, so you are automatically a leader.
Mary J. BligeJust don't let the hype of what people are saying and how much they love you, y'know, just take the compliment and be thankful that people are complimenting you, but don't let it consume you; don't let your circumstances around you and the way people view you make you act a certain way.
Mary J. Blige