Realism absorbs the ideal by adding a few small imperfections. Example: it paints a few specks of mud on the white gown of the Lady in the Garden.

Eccentricity gives misfits a way of fitting in.

Fear of my cruel impulses makes me kind.

Self-righteous victims invite extra nails.

Living too long exacts a painful price.

Sex is not imaginary, but it is not quite real either.

Both faith and cynicism make judgment too easy.