Looking into another person's eyes for an extended period of time proved to be a powerful thing. And if you don't believe me, try it yourself.
Matthew QuickThat's basically the mantra of Herr Silverman's teaching - think for yourself and do what's right for you, but let others do the same.
Matthew QuickWhen she needed help most, she was abandoned--and only when she offered help to others was she beloved.
Matthew QuickYou want to be a good person, don't you, Pat?' I nod. I cry. I do want to be a good person, I really do. 'I'm going to up your meds,' Dr. Patel tells me. 'You might feel a little sluggish, but it should help to curb your violent outbursts. You need to know it's your actions that will make you a good person, not desire.
Matthew Quick