Baptism separates the tire kickers from the car buyers.
Nothing fosters courage like a clear grasp of grace... & nothing fosters fear like an ignorance of mercy
Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life.
Christ became one of us to redeem all of us.
God has the final word on your life and His word is grace.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. In the meantime don't be foolish or naïve. But don't despair either. With God's help you will get through this.