No partner in a love relationship... should feel that he has to give up an essential part of himself to make it viable.
May SartonLove cannot exorcise the gifts of hate. / Hate cannot exorcize what has no weight, / But laughter we can never over-rate.
May SartonFor inside all the weakness of old age, the spirit, God knows, is as mercurial as it ever was.
May SartonI write poems about relationships, love relationships, and I'm not able to do that all the time. I could go two years without writing poems, and then write a dozen. Having a novel to work on, with the intricate puzzle of character and plot to work out, is satisfying for the time there is no poetry.
May SartonFailure would only be if you had somewhere stopped growing. As far as I can see the whole duty of the artist is to keep on growing.
May SartonThe woman who needs to create works of art is born with a kind of psychic tension in her which drives her unmercifully to find a way to balance, to make herself whole. Every human being has this need: in the artist it is mandatory. Unable to fulfill it, he goes mad. But when the artist is a woman she fulfills it at the expense of herself as a woman.
May Sarton