Maybe that whole love thing is just a grown-up version of Santa Claus; just a myth we've been fed since childhood. So, we keep buying magazines, joining clubs, and doing therapy and watching movies with hit pop songs played over love montages all in a pathetic attempt to explain why our love Santa keeps getting caught in the chimney.
Meg RyanWomen are socialized to be nice, to be docile. I call it 'shrink to fit': Shrink yourself to fit what others expect of you.
Meg Ryan