The truth is, I need to experience my mother's presence in the world around me and not just in my head.
Meghan O'RourkeFor sure, the funeral industry seems intensely cynical to me and I don't think it is HELPING people mourn.
Meghan O'RourkeOne of the difficulties with grief research is that it risks making certain kinds of grief seem normal and others abnormal - and of course having a sense of the contours of grief is, I think, truly useful, one has to remember it's not a science, it's an individual reckoning, which science is just trying to help us describe.
Meghan O'Rourke