Girls gave sex to get love and boys gave love to get sex and conning girls was the favorite indoor sport.

There are problems connected with infidelity and problems connected with being faithful at any cost, and I am for letting those concerned choose the problems they'd prefer. There need not be one rule for all. Infidelity is enlarging and fragmenting and very very dangerous, but it has been known to retrieve people as well as marriages, so it can't be only bad.

Compassion is the thing that leads you gently back to yourself.

One can never change the past, only the hold it has on you, and while nothing in your life is reversible, you can reverse it nevertheless.

Friends are people who help you be more yourself, more the person you are intended to be.

There are no perfect men of course, but some are more perfect than others, and we can use all of those we can get.

Feelings take you into uncharted territory from time to time it's true, but you almost always benefit from the journey one way or the other. We tend to think of the rational as a higher order, but it is the emotional that marks our lives.