I think that you find your own way. You have your own rules. You have your own understanding of yourself, and that's what you're going to count on. In the end, it's what feels right to you. Not what your mother told you. Not what some actress told you. Not what anybody else told you but the still, small voice.
Meryl StreepPeople want what they want. Sometimes you just have to walk in defiance of it and just be yourself.
Meryl Streep