The quickest way to create a boy or man who lacks compassion is to judge and shame his feelings.

Our youth want less adult contact if that co ntacttreats them like boys. They want more adult contact that treats them like young men. Tired as they are of the former, they are hungry for the latter

Most teachers are not trained in how boys and girls learn differently.

If Huck Finn or Tom Sawyer were alive today, we’d say they had ADD or a conduct disorder. They [boys] are who they are, and we need to love them for who they are. Let’s not try to rewire them.

A mother's job... is very much to hold back the coming of manhood.

If we create a generation of men who aren't getting an education, that's bad for women.

Soul development depends on attachment and bonding. Every brain and body is genetically wired to develop itself, but the full soul development of brain and body depends on each child receiving the care of between two and five completely bonded caregivers.