You are the captain of your own ship; don't let anyone else take the wheel.
An ounce of action is worth a ton of good intentions.
Good character is the single most important attribute of a successful and worthy life.
People who fight fire with fire end up with only the ashes of their own integrity.
Don't ask whether it is going to be easy. Ask whether it is worth it.
It's a great joy but no test of love or commitment to take your son to a ball game. You really prove your credentials as a good dad when you are willing to take your daughter shopping - more than once.