Walk away from 'friendships' that make you feel small and insecure, and seek out people who inspire you and support you

I think if I weren't married to [Barack Obama], I'd want him to be in there.

What I love about design is the artistic and scientific complexity that also becomes useful.

I always encourage people to start in their own personal universe, because sometimes we as parents start thinking about the big picture. How do I change what's happening in my entire school? And how do I do it in my community? And then you get overwhelmed and it's just like, "Forget it, I'll just stay here in my kitchen and wait." But, start small.

Throughout my life, I've learned to make choices that make me happy and make sense for me. Even my husband is happier when I'm happy.

My sense is that being a First Lady is a full-time job, but I'll know more when the time comes.

Value everyone's contribution and treat everyone with respect.