I don't know what my version of a relationship or marriage is yet, because the typical model seems a little broken to me.

It's all so personal, isn't it? It's hard to talk about work without talking about things that are personal. Work is personal. I don't want to talk about my personal life, but it's on my mind, and it's in my work.

I learn a lot; what I learn cannot be expressed in words.

I want to be like water. I want to slip through fingers, but hold up a ship.

I like to do weird things in the shower, like drink my coffee, brush my teeth and drink a smoothie. It's good time management.

For this relay there was a little more pressure because it's the 200, you have to make sure you swim it smart. The 100 was more about energy.

From Blue Valentine I kept my wedding ring. I actually kept it on for a while. After the shooting had stopped, I was still wearing it – I couldn’t quite take it off – and now I keep it above the kitchen sink where I do dishes, as a little memento.