There are so many things in human living that we should regard not as traumatic learning but as incomplete learning, unfinished learning.

Little is really known of the actual potentials of human functioning.

The unconscious works without your knowledge and that is the way it prefers.

Life is lived in the present and directed toward a future.

Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change.

You can trust the unconscious.

The Structure of Magic I by Richard Bandler and John Grinder is a delightful simplification of the infinite complexities of the language I use with patients. In reading this book, I learned a great deal about the things that I've done without knowing about them.