Milton H. Erickson Quotes

Until you are willing to be confused about what you already know, what you know will never grow bigger, better, or more useful.

There are so many things in human living that we should regard not as traumatic learning but as incomplete learning, unfinished learning.

Enlightenment is always preceded by confusion.

You don't take insults. You leave them with the insulter.

You see, we don't know what our goals are. We learn our goals only in the process of getting there. "I don't know what I'm building but I'm going to enjoy building it and when I get through building it I'll know what it is." In doing psychotherapy you impress this upon patients. You don't know what a baby is going to become. Therefore, you take good care of it until it becomes what it will.

You can't learn to swim on a piano bench.

Life will bring you pain all by itself. Your responsibility is to create joy.

The unconscious mind is decidedly simple, unaffected, straightforward and honest. It hasn't got all of this facade, this veneer of what we call adult culture. It's rather simple, rather childish It is direct and free.

Trance is a natural everyday experience.

People do not come into therapy to change their past but their future.

The unconscious works without your knowledge and that is the way it prefers.

People who accomplish a great many things are people who have freed themselves from biases. These are the creative people.

You use hypnosis not as a cure but as a means of establishing a favorable climate in which to learn.

A goal without a date is just a dream.

Every person's map of the world is as unique as their thumbprint.There are no two people alike. No two people who understand the same sentence the same way... So in dealing with people, you try not to fit them to your concept of what they should be.

The Structure of Magic I by Richard Bandler and John Grinder is a delightful simplification of the infinite complexities of the language I use with patients. In reading this book, I learned a great deal about the things that I've done without knowing about them.

I have no intention of dying. In fact, it will be the last thing I do!

You can trust the unconscious.

How many of us really appreciate the childishness of the unconscious mind?

Don't ask why the patient is the way he is, ask for what he would change.

You can't effect the cards that you are dealt, but you can determine how you play them.

What is easiest to see is often overlooked.

The most important thing in changing human behavior is the person's motivation.

Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change.

Therapy is often a matter of tipping the first domino.

Patients are patients because they are out of rapport with their own unconscious... Patients are people who have had too much programming - so much outside programming that they have lost touch with their inner selves.

Life isn't something you can give an answer to today. You should enjoy the process of waiting, the process of becoming what you are. There is nothing more delightful than planting flower seeds and not knowing what kind of flowers are going to come up.

When I wanted to know something, I wanted it undistorted by somebody else's imperfect knowledge.

Little is really known of the actual potentials of human functioning.

Each person is a unique individual. Hence, psychotherapy should be formulated to meet the uniqueness of the individual's needs, rather than tailoring the person to fit the Procrustean bed of a hypothetical theory of human behavior.

Emphasis should be placed more on what the patient does in the present and will do in the future than on a mere understanding of why some long-past event occurred.

Life is lived in the present and directed toward a future.

You can pretend anything and master it.

Allow yourself to see what you don’t allow yourself to see.