Girls throw away so much energy in this search for beauty and sexiness.
I love clothes. Maybe I can say I don't love fashion, but I love clothes completely.
I remember being mad about having pink and red shoes. I gew up envying other girls' pink and red shoes.
Women have the stress of being beautiful, of age and youth. Men don't have all that. And with women, that stress causes a lot of mistakes and bad choices - a lot of not being their true self.
The older I get, the more I prefer to talk to old people. Old people or kids.
Clothes can be important. I am learning this. For instance, often when I design and I wonder what is the point, I think of someone having a bad time in their life.