You can insist on a different end to the story.

My creativity comes from an unhoned place, if 'unhoned' is a word.

Feeling alone and unseen can intensify the experience of being harassed, shamed, or bullied.

I have spent the past several years working so hard to just move on, and to try and build a life for myself.

The jokes that take my last name and equate them to a sex act ... is a really cruel thing to do.

Sure, my boss took advantage of me, but I will always remain firm on this point: it was a consensual relationship. Any 'abuse' came in the aftermath, when I was made a scapegoat in order to protect his powerful position.

Be mindful of clickbait - sensational stories designed to humiliate. Click with compassion.