Ask others about themselves, at the same time, be on guard not to talk too much about yourself.
Mortimer AdlerIn the case of good books, the point is not to see how many of them you can get through, but how many can get through to you.
Mortimer Adler... The person who, at any stage of a conversation, disagrees, should at least hope to reach agreement in the end. He should be as much prepared to have his own mind changed as seek to change the mind of another ... No one who looks upon disagreement as an occasion for teaching another should forget that it is also an occasion for being taught.
Mortimer Adler