Are we defined by our choices? Our behavior? Our actions? No. I don't believe that defines our worth.

I went through about seven years of trying. And through artificial insemination. And through medication. And all of which was unsuccessful.

I don't believe I'm selfish in any way.

I am responsible. Yes, I have chosen to be single.

Reflecting back on my childhood, I know it wasn't functional. I was very unconditionally loved and accepted, I felt, by my father.

I was looking at myself, and acknowledged that I wasn't in love at all with him [husband]. I was in love with having children.

I personally do not believe I'm irresponsible. Everything I do revolves around my children.