For "I" to become "we" and yet remain "I," is one of the great challenges of marriage.
Nathaniel BrandenSelf-respecting men and women think about the consequences of their actions-and are willing to take responsibility for them.
Nathaniel BrandenTaking on responsibilities that properly belong to someone else means behaving irresponsibly toward yourself. You need to know where you end and someone else begins. You need to understand boundaries. You need to know what is and is not up to you, what is and is not in your control, what is and is not your responsibility.
Nathaniel Branden