I think that the practice of writing every day was what made me remember that writing doesn't have anything to do with publishing books. It can be totally separate and private - a comforting thought.
Nell FreudenbergerIf somebody says your story is only published because you look nice in the photo, that maybe spurs you on to write.
Nell FreudenbergerI think the few writers who influenced me most in writing short stories are Alice Munro and Grace Paley. They're very different, and I can't do what they do, but reading them gives me hope that I'll learn something from them.
Nell FreudenbergerNovels shouldnโt aspire to answer questions, and I wouldnโt presume to offer advice about love or marriage in any case. Whatโs fascinating to me about marriage as a subject for fictionโa subject that fiction has taken on with gusto since the 19th centuryโis how unknowable other peopleโs relationships are. Even the marriages of your parents, your siblings, your closest friends always remain something of a mystery. Only in fiction can you pretend to know people completely.
Nell Freudenberger