If the course of human affairs be considered, it will be seen that many things arise against which heaven does not allow us to guard.
Niccolo MachiavelliIt is better to be loved rather than feared, or feared rather than loved? It might perhaps be answered that we should wish to be both: but since love and fear can hardly exist together, if we must choose between them, it is far safer to be feared than loved.
Niccolo Machiavelli