When your Islamic discourse with someone becomes a debate, that's when you know that you have to stop. The psychology of a debate is like a sports competition, and no one likes to lose. So even if you make a good point, the other person isn't going to congratulate you. They are thinking about revenge.
Nouman Ali KhanIf you believe in justice, surely you believe in the hereafter, because this world is not just.
Nouman Ali KhanParents test our patience more than anyone else...Being around them keeps you in check...that's what keeps you humbled.
Nouman Ali KhanHusbands and wives, if you guys donโt have a beautiful marriage, a loving marriage, a romantic marriage you are ruining your eeman! You have to have a marriage so awesome that you donโt have to look at the character of a movie or a play and say โi wish i had a marriage like thisโ, your marriage should be better than that because otherwise, Sheytan will come to each one of you and say โman i wonder, is there anything better out there, why am I stuck in this?โ Both husband and wife have to work hard to make their relationship work not for yourselves but for your eeman!
Nouman Ali KhanReal leadership is about building people up and empowering them. Many leaders feel that empowering someone else will reduce their own authority. I ask you: When Rasulallah salAllahu alayhi wa sallam empowered the sahaba, did that take away from his authority or did it empower him?
Nouman Ali KhanEvery single success you experience is a combination of two things: your effort and Allah's help. When you don't put in enough effort, Allah does not give His barakah. And sometimes you might put in a lot of effort but you may not see the result you expected. That, also, is Allah's barakah.
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