I'm grateful for believing in a religion that can naturally adapt to changing times yet uphold timeless values and principles.
Nouman Ali KhanTalk with your daughters, Play with your sons. You need to be a better friend to them than anyone else. This society offers lots of evil friends. Before they make those kinds of friends, they need to find their best friend in you.
Nouman Ali KhanHow do you know if Allah has forgiven you? When someone sincerely asks for forgiveness, then there is no doubt they are forgiven. It is guaranteed. Never doubt if Allah forgave you. First of all be sincere and genuine, and if you meet that condition then there is no doubt.
Nouman Ali KhanWhen you find yourself in a position to help someone, be happy because Allah is answering that personโs prayer through you.
Nouman Ali KhanYou know how everyone felt like they were the favorite person of Rasulallah salAllahu 'alayhi wa sallam? We need to bring that sunnah into our homes. When we speak to our mother, she should feel that she's the most loved person in our life. When we speak to our wife, she should also get the same feeling. Before we try to change the world, let's bring balance in our homes.
Nouman Ali KhanIf shaytan has entered into your heart - evil will look beautiful to you and good will seem tiring and exhausting.
Nouman Ali KhanThe first thing that Shaytan (Satan) will try to do is get you to stop praying. You know why? Because he has to kill the guard if he wants to penetrate the castle. Once the guard is gone, then Shaytan(satan) can open the floodgates for evil. And he has a lot of patience. He has done this to many people before so heโs experienced as well.
Nouman Ali KhanPeople of dua are optimistic by definition. They know that dua and thoughts like 'unlikely' or 'impossible' don't coexist.
Nouman Ali KhanEvery single success you experience is a combination of two things: your effort and Allah's help. When you don't put in enough effort, Allah does not give His barakah. And sometimes you might put in a lot of effort but you may not see the result you expected. That, also, is Allah's barakah.
Nouman Ali KhanAllah says Jannah is awesome, imagine how awesome that is when the All-Knowing is calling it awesome
Nouman Ali KhanEvery Hour has its own value. Every minute is precious. Every second is irreplaceable. Thank Allah for the time you have, be it little. If you thank Allah for something, He will surely increase it in its blessings.
Nouman Ali KhanFilthy language is used by people who don't have the maturity or intelligence to express themselves with better words.
Nouman Ali KhanParents test our patience more than anyone else...Being around them keeps you in check...that's what keeps you humbled.
Nouman Ali KhanInsulting the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) is like trying to spit at the sun, it will only come back in your face.
Nouman Ali KhanAllah created the bonds of family, so Who are you to cut bonds that Allah has created.
Nouman Ali KhanNikah is a contract that transfers responsibilities. Therefore know the man you're thinking of marrying, and be sure that he is able to take care of you, more than your dad did. Islam empowers women with honor and dignity. Don't settle for anything less.
Nouman Ali KhanYou know what the Quran teaches me? The Quran teaches me that an incredibly wealthy man can be a failure (Firaun) and a homeless man can be successful (Prophet Ibrahim). It teaches me that success has nothing to do with wealth and failure has nothing to do with poverty.
Nouman Ali KhanSelf restraint in speech, food, entertainment and vanity are the most essential fundamental of spiritual growth.
Nouman Ali KhanThe more knowledge (of deen) you have the more humble you should be. Instead you are becoming judgemental.
Nouman Ali KhanIf you believe in justice, surely you believe in the hereafter, because this world is not just.
Nouman Ali KhanWhen Allah puts barakah (His blessings) in something, it will come beyond your expectations- never underestimate the power of one good deed.
Nouman Ali KhanOur religion doesn't demand perfection but instead a manageable strive to better ourselves.
Nouman Ali KhanLow self esteem is rooted in many things. One of them is not spending time to appreciate the gifts we've been given.
Nouman Ali KhanYou and I are not Muslim, because we are born in a Muslim family. You and I are not Muslim, because you read a book about Islam, or saw a Youtube video and decided to become Muslim. We are Muslim, because Allah chose us. Allah chose us.
Nouman Ali KhanDo not force the religion on your family. Show them the beauty of the Religion through your own practice.
Nouman Ali KhanHusbands and wives, if you guys donโt have a beautiful marriage, a loving marriage, a romantic marriage you are ruining your eeman! You have to have a marriage so awesome that you donโt have to look at the character of a movie or a play and say โi wish i had a marriage like thisโ, your marriage should be better than that because otherwise, Sheytan will come to each one of you and say โman i wonder, is there anything better out there, why am I stuck in this?โ Both husband and wife have to work hard to make their relationship work not for yourselves but for your eeman!
Nouman Ali KhanI should be grateful for the tough times because Allah chose me, thought I was good enough to go through it.
Nouman Ali KhanReligion becomes a hollow shell of its former self when ritual remains and thoughtful reflection disappears.
Nouman Ali KhanEvery single night our soul is taken, and every single night the Angel asks before bringing it back, "Ya Allah what about this one?" "Do You want to send it back?" Do You want to pull the plug or should we keep the Ruh (soul)?" And every night Allah gives permission to the Angel to let us live one more time."
Nouman Ali KhanReal leadership is about building people up and empowering them. Many leaders feel that empowering someone else will reduce their own authority. I ask you: When Rasulallah salAllahu alayhi wa sallam empowered the sahaba, did that take away from his authority or did it empower him?
Nouman Ali KhanIt is not true that if we had true faith we would not be sad. Prophets (as), and righteous people experienced a great deal of sadness. The Quran is full of stories in which the central theme is sadness. Sadness is a reality of life. The Quran is not there to eliminate sadness, but to navigate it. Sadness is one of the tests of life, just as happiness, and anger are tests.
Nouman Ali KhanPeople can put you down, and they will but Allah will never abandon you, so long as you donโt.
Nouman Ali KhanWhen youโre not patient, you start complaining. And the fact that youโre complaining is a sign that youโre not grateful.
Nouman Ali KhanThe question is grateful to who? You would think grateful to Allah, but Allah didnโt mention Himself. So it could be grateful to Allah, grateful to your parents, grateful to your teachers, grateful for your health, grateful to friends. Grateful to anyone whoโs done anything for you. Grateful to your employer for giving you a job. Appreciative. Grateful is not just an act of saying Alhamdulilah. Grateful is an attitude, itโs a lifestyle, itโs a way of thinking. Youโre constantly grateful.
Nouman Ali KhanWhen you pay attention to the Quran, you discover that it can only be from Allah. It becomes clearer and clearer to you that it cannot be from a human being. But many people don't perceive the Quran this way because Allah doesn't open its doors to people who do not pay attention.
Nouman Ali KhanYou can't just pretend that the things you watch, and the things you hear, and the places you go will not have an impact on your character. They will.
Nouman Ali KhanIf doctors are paid the same salary as bus drivers, community would not be crazy about making their children doctors
Nouman Ali KhanIblis (satan) himself recognizes the Lordship of Allah, but wants the human being to forget it
Nouman Ali KhanSabr is not remaining quiet and allowing anger to build up inside you. Sabr is to talk about what's bothering you without losing control of your emotions.
Nouman Ali KhanLower your gaze because you become less of a human every time you stare at a woman and you stare at her like she's a piece of meat, like she's an animal. That just means you've lost respect for a fellow human being. You're looking at her like an ape looks at a female ape, like a dog looks at a female dog.That's all, you've turned into an animal. Regain your humanity. Lower your gaze.
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