Instead of looking for the success in your life, look for the thing that is going to bring you the greatest joy.
Oprah WinfreyI didn't want to say "No" because I didn't want people to think I'm not nice. And that, to me, has been the greatest lesson of my life: to recognize that I am solely responsible for it, and not trying to please other people, and not living my life to please other people, but doing what my heart says all the time.
Oprah Winfrey