Ender Wiggin must believe that no matter what happens, no adult will ever, ever step in to help him in any way.
Orson Scott CardLike running the hurdles. Work so hard, jump over every one, fast, high enough but no higher, because you can't afford to hang in the air. And then, when the race is over, you're dripping with sweat, either they beat you or you beat them ... and then a couple of guys come out and move the hurdles out of the way. Turns out they were nothing. All that work to jump over them, but now they're gone.
Orson Scott CardUlysses, obviously. It was an elaborate prank, and our supposed intellectual elite continue to fall for it.
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