Sometime you will find, even as I have found, that there is no such thing as romantic experience; there are romantic memories, and there is the desire of romance- that is all. Our most fiery moments of ecstasy are merely shadows of what somewhere else we have felt, or of what we long someday to feel
Oscar WildeA virtuous abstinence from the joys of pederasty comes most easily to those who have no taste for it.
Oscar Wilde