There is no such thing as a good influence. Because to influence a person is to give him one's own soul. He does not think his natural thoughts, or burn with his natural passions. His virtures are not real to him. His sins, if there are such thing as sins, are borrowed. He becomes an echo of someone else's music, an actor of a part that has not been written for him.
Oscar WildeLady Bracknell. Good afternoon, dear Algernon, I hope you are behaving very well. Algernon. Iโm feeling very well, Aunt Augusta. Lady Bracknell. Thatโs not quite the same thing. In fact the two things rarely go together.
Oscar WildeEthics, like natural selection, make existence possible. Aesthetics, like sensual selection, make life lovely and wonderful, fill it with new forms, and give it progress, and variety and change.
Oscar Wilde