I knew the facts of death before I knew the facts of life. There never was a time when I didn't see the skull beneath the skin.
P. D. JamesThe world of the terminally ill is the world of neither the living nor the dead. I have watched others since I watched my father, and always with a sense of their strangeness. They sit and speak, and are spoken to, and listen, and even smile, but in spirit they have already moved away from us and there is no way we can enter their shadowy no-manโs-land.
P. D. James