If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.

If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.

By coming out to ourselves, we free up the energy we spent keeping a part of ourselves hidden.

As an activist, you gotta pick something that's particularly interesting to you and go for it - because there's no shortage of things to do. And it's sort of a long-term commitment. Activism is for life.

Prejudice usually can't survive close contact with the people who are supposed to be so despicable, which is why the propagandists for hate always preach separation.

SM is an art. Doing it well requires more than a bag full of expensive whips and exotic electrical toys, a closet full of fetish clothes, or a basement filled with bondage furniture.

This is one of the reasons we need to transition: people can't validate an identity they can't see.