If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.
Patrick CalifiaBoy lovers and the lesbians who have young lovers... are not child molesters. The child abusers are priests, teachers, therapists, cops and parents who force their staid morality onto the young people in their custody.
Patrick CalifiaBy coming out to ourselves, we free up the energy we spent keeping a part of ourselves hidden.
Patrick Califia