If you live in a society that wishes you didn't exist, anything you do to make yourself happy disrupts its attempts to wipe you out, or at the very least, make you invisible.
Patrick CalifiaIf your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.
Patrick CalifiaWhen you're hurting another person, past a certain point you're cracking them open and whatever's inside them gets all over you. So you should kinda check out whether you want that to happen.
Patrick Califia