I talk about things like how to lose without losing identity. All loss and grief feels like when you transition.

I had gotten pregnant and decided make this - what people might have thought as a wrong - of course, my greatest gifts in life.

That defining moment at my friend's house, when his uncle looks in my eye and reads me the word of God, I have an awakening.

I think we try to box and put God in some limited definition, which is impossible.

No one goes into a marriage - when I went into my marriage many years ago, I thought I'd end my life with Randy [White]. And the divorce is not anything that I ever wanted to happen.

I was in school at the time, but at this time I'm in college. I'm holding up this bible and I say, God, who are you?And so I do nothing for the next two years of my life, virtually, but stay in the word of God and find out what is the answers to life.

There are crucial things that cause fractures, breaks, whatever in relationships. But no one throws a life away.