We feel that we have to be right so that we can feel good... The whole right and wrong business closes us down and makes our world smaller.
Pema ChodronThe very first noble truth of the Buddha points out that suffering is inevitable for human beings as long as we believe that things lastโthat they donโt disintegrate, that they can be counted on to satisfy our hunger for security.
Pema ChodronWell, it starts with being willing to feel what we are going through. It starts with being willing to have a compassionate relationship with the parts of ourselves that we feel are not worthy of existing on the planet. If we are willing through meditation to be mindful not only of what feels comfortable, but also of what pain feels like, if we even aspire to stay awake and open to what we're feeling, to recognize and acknowledge it as best we can in each moment, then something begins to change.
Pema Chodron