If you ask why we meditate, I would say it's so we can become more flexible and tolerant to the present moment.
Pema ChodronDonโt worry about achieving. Donโt worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
Pema ChodronIt isn't the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it's what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
Pema ChodronBlaming is a way to protect your heart, trying to protect what is soft and open and tender in yourself.
Pema Chodron