We're not trying to be something we aren't; rather, we're reconnecting with who we are.
Pema ChodronIf you work with your mind, instead of trying to change everything on the outside, that's how your temper will cool down.
Pema ChodronWhen things are shaky and nothing is working, we might realize that we are on the verge of something. We might realize that this is a very vulnerable and tender place, and that tenderness can go either way. We can shut down and feel resentful or we can touch in on that throbbing quality. (9)
Pema Chodron