Unconditional good heart toward others is not even a possibility unless we attend to our own demons.
Pema ChodronMost of us do not take these situations as teachings. We automatically hate them. We run like crazy. We use all kinds of ways to escape - all addictions stem from this moment when we meet our edge and we just can't stand it. We feel we have to soften it, pad it with something, and we become addicted to whatever it is that seems to ease the pain.
Pema ChodronAs each breath goes out, let it be the end of that moment and the birth of something new. . .
Pema Chodron