Awareness is the key. Do we see the stories that we're telling ourselves and question their validity?
Pema ChodronTonglen practice begins to dissolve the illusion that each of us is alone with this personal suffering that no one else can understand.
Pema ChodronThere's a reason you can learn from everything: you have basic wisdom, basic intelligence, and basic goodness.
Pema ChodronAre you experiencing restlessness? Stay! Are fear and loathing out of control? Stay! Aching knees and throbbing back? Stay! What's for lunch? Stay! I can't stand this another minute! Stay!
Pema Chodron