If we had not met, that day, I think I would have imagined you somehow.
Unless I am a part of everything I am nothing.
You have this comet trail of your own lived life, sparks from which arrive in the head all the time, whether you want them or not - life has been lived but it is still all going on, in the mind for better and for worse.
I do like to embed a fictional character firmly in an occupation.
I didn't want it to be a book that made pronouncements.
Getting to know someone else involves curiosity about where they have come from, who they are.